Sunday, March 29, 2020

Today we ran away


We ran away to the mountains today for a while. A bit to calm the stir-crazy we know is coming as we settle into Shelter in Place.


 Littlest said the water was COLD!!!





We were extremely careful, got near no one, touched nothing except nature, and enjoyed the beautiful sunshine and warm weather.

We’re seriously moving into protection mode for Anthony. He’s a front-line healthcare worker entering multiple homes on a daily basis. His transplant saved his life 6 years ago and we want to keep him around as long as possible.

Twice a day he takes medicines that suppress his immune system. He has NO way to fight if he gets this virus. He loves his job and will continue to work as long as it’s deemed safe. He doesn’t enter homes of symptomatic patients, wears PPE as needed, and cleans and sanitizes.

But here at home we’re tightening it up. No more visits, separating from neighborhood kids, and my kids haven’t seen the inside of a store in weeks. We’ll do everything we can to protect him and other vulnerable people. 


You do your part. 

Middle is EIGHT!!!


Today belongs to Aspen.

March 28, 2020

It's a different birthday than we've ever had. We usually celebrate with 90-100 friends and family for a big birthday bash. This year things changed. But we're trying not to let this crazy virus get her down.

To know Aspen is to love her. She loves BIG and tells you often. She's sugar, and spice, and everything nice. She is always happy, smiling, singing, or dancing. She NEVER stops moving, even when she sleeps. She is a peacemaker and would give anything she has to make others happy. 

She's crazy smart and loves to read, sometimes 2 chapter books a day! She rarely complains, never even tells us she's sick. 

She is our joy. She's so precious and happy. We truly needed an Aspen in our lives, and God delivered her just perfectly.




We’ve had a good day...in spite of stupid Coronavirus.

We started the day with presents, I had a helper making requested chocolate chip pancakes. 


We celebrated all morning by having small visits from grandparents. She got art lessons from one set, and horsey accessories from the other.



They have jumped on the trampoline allllll day and Daddy even painted her toenails mermaid colors for the occasion.



Her whole Sunday school/Children’s church group met this morning and they sang her Happy Birthday!




My girl, Carrie Setzer killed it for her mermaid cake!!!! 😍😍😍
She dropped her iPod in the fish pond 🤦🏻‍♀️

We had Taco Bell for lunch 😂😂 and went on a Bear Hunt this evening. Unfortunately we didn’t catch many sightings before she got sick in the van. 😭

She’s fine now, she almost always throws up when she has a headache, with little to no warning.
We’ll try again tomorrow.

Tuesday, March 24, 2020

Coronavirus

Y'all, this is crazy. Our world has been turned upside down. Our lives have been disrupted, our routines have been interrupted, our homes have become our safe haven.
Today is Day 11 of the North Carolina quarantine. 
We've been asked to stay home if travel isn't necessary. Most non-essential jobs have closed their doors and sent workers home. My own mom filed for unemployment for the first time in her life as her job is closed for a minimum of 6 weeks. 
We're being asked to stay 6 feet away from people. We're not allowed to have gatherings larger than 50, just reduced from 100. Churches are CLOSED! We haven't been to church in 2 weeks now. We're streaming online with what feels like the rest of the free world. 
We're able to get groceries, when they're available, but all restaurants are closed to eat-in options. It's drive through, drive-up, and curb side service right now. 
The craziness over groceries is really ridiculous. There's no toilet paper to be found. Riddle me this...why does a respiratory disease need you to buy 100 rolls of toilet paper? I know....in case we're called to "Shelter in Place" and not leave our homes. I get it, it's scary. But please....only take your share!
As Cindy Monroe says, just take your share of the potatoes.
On March 13, 2020 all schools in NC were closed. Teacher friends, and teachers across the country, have been scrambling to find ways to provide learning opportunities for kids at home. Moms and Dads have now become defacto homeschool teachers. Millions of kids are now home every day instead of in a secure, safe place like school. Districts are handing out lunches like crazy, offering online learning, sharing ideas that have worked for others. The Education community has TRULY come together to show everyone how amazing teachers really are. You want digital learning? Done. You want packets for home learning? Done. You want to reach out to parents by any means necessary? Done. Seriously y'all. If the educational community can do this when all the Red Tape is gone, just think about how awesome education would truly be if the "suits" got out of the way and let teachers do their thing.
For us, as a homeschooling family, you may think this doesn't change much. But I assure you it does. Our normal day usually includes an outing of some kind. We have field trips too, places we enjoy visiting and we LOVE Chick-fil-A with friends something fierce. Our co-op days are our most favorite. That's when our homeschool friends meet for joint classes and fun. We learn, eat, play, and laugh together. It also gives Mom some time to talk to people other than her children. Phew!
So here on day 11 we're still doing our school time as usual. We've done math, spelling, science, history, Bible, and music. They've watched a few episodes of their favorite shows and visited with a neighbor. I'm currently typing while listening to them fuss about the fort they're trying to build in their rooms...the big kids that is. Littlest is trying my patience by NOT napping but instead is hopping and jumping around in there. *Sigh*
They're tired of each other. Shoot, they're tired of me. They're probably even tired of their own selves. Middle is really good at entertaining herself and is really enjoying creating DIY arts and crafts for her dolls. She's found a YouTube channel that shows people playing with dolls and all the small things they've made for them. She's trying to recreate some of that. She also really enjoys coloring, drawing, painting, and puzzles. She's pretty easy to entertain.
Oldest is hard. He comes up with ideas he wants to try or build or make. Often those things are dangerous, could potentially hurt others, or are really obnoxious. He's good with video games for a bit but we're not huge on those around here anyway. He does not love reading like the Middle. She could read for HOURS! So Oldest is the hardest to occupy.
Littlest is so much fun, and so easy. She just enjoys us being home and together. She can play with anything and have fun. She loves movies, loves to sing and dance. She's almost always wearing a costume, dress-up dress, fancy dress, princess dress, etc. She is such a joy to have around and we all adore her. God's plan is so perfect...he knew we needed her even when we were sure we didn't need another baby.
So we're home. We're occupied for the most part. Hubby is still working every day. Healthcare doesn't stop. Especially not in the middle of a health crisis. His patients still need to be seen and some need the visit to be checked on. We worry about him having NO immune system for himself. We worry about him being in contact with someone who's infected and is asymptomatic. It takes 14 days to sometimes even show a symptom. That's a LONG time! We just pray every day. We pray he doesn't bring it home to use. We pray he doesn't share with his parents who are older and compromised. We pray he doesn't get infected himself as his body has no way to fight back. 
We pray.
We pray every day for us, for our families, for our friends. We pray for you. We pray for everyone to be safe and protected. 
I know it's been a while since I've posted and I haven't been keeping up. But life happens, ya know. I want to try to write things down during this time. I'm sure someone will want to look back and remember how it all went down. And it's not like we're out running around busy or anything. HA!